This is a space for all things positive, creative, and grounded in love. Welcome, I am Kat Smith, a model/actor, International and TEDx Speaker, and author. Here is where I share thoughts and information to inspire healing, love, empowerment, renewal, and growth which are at the core of all content.
Learn to create a remarkable life through positive change and resilience. A survivor and thriver, she explores the difficulties of life and offers help to her listening and viewing community in support of turning challenges into triumphs.
Self Imposed Friendship Responsibility
Welcome to a New Series of posts I am branding as EVOLution. Evolving in love. I woke up this morning with a renewed sense of freedom. A weight had been lifted. I have shared before that we as humans have a tendency to talk ourselves into relationships and that includes friendships. Once there we self-impose responsibilities for those people. We take responsibility for maintaining the friend/relationship even if it is not a healthy one. We tell ourselves, “Oh that is just him/her.” We overlook behaviors like selfishness or neediness and allow them to treat us in ways that don’t quite settle right in our spirit. Well, I use the quote by Maya Angelou, “When people show you who they are believe them.” Someone I had known for around…